You've probably read everyone else's replies..consider that there's one simple idea running through most of them.
Get the rear to rotate. Whether it's momentum, or left-foot braking, or whatever else, you've got to get the thing to rotate without the throttle. You can get a FWD car to rotate with the throttle, but you have to lift & punch, instead of just teasing the throttle like a RWD car. Kills the driveline if you do it too often, and kills your momentum in the first place. Get the car to rotate on its own, so that you don't have to force it to do so through your input.
I drove VWs in SCCA Improved Touring, what we did was simply stiffen up the rear suspension so much that when the car was loaded in a corner, the inside rear wheel would come off the ground. Losing that traction would make the car rotate. Of course, those cars all had solid beam rear axles, I don't know what it would take to do the same trick to a FWD car with an independent rear suspension.
EDIT: Buy Jack Doo's book. It's old..but still has a nugget or two about the basics.
http://www.amazon.com/Front-Wheel-Driving-High-Performance-Advantage/dp/0879382988
How can it be a midlife crisis, when I've driven sportscars my entire life?